I would like to retire on the East Coast which is where I am from. I currently live in the western USA. I would like a warmer climate, no income tax, no smoking bans in place, and a smaller yet very self supporting smaller city with a lower cost of living than big metro areas. However I am concerned that as a gay person that is not out in your face about it, I will still feel uncomfortable and find little means to interact with both gay and st8 people in Tallahassee. I am finding not many places to retire too that are lower cost and meet the needs mentioned. Thanks.